Focussing on your family really can build your true wealth.
And you want to know how to have more cash in your pocket at the end of every month too. Some people just want their cake and eat it too...(sigh).
Alright, let's begin by reading that famous quote below and see what you think.
"A man who doesn't spend time with his family isn't a real man", Don Corleone in the GodFather, an iconic movie of 1972. Of course, being the most fearsome personality in that city, that quote had great impact. And so it should with everybody.
And in these days of equality,that goes for the ladies too. No exceptions.
So Dad and Mum, both of you have your special Mother's Day and Father's Day at around this time of year. So celebrate! And thenat other times, here's the "but where were you on such and such a day or such and such a weekend?"
Alright, let's get down to it:
Spending too much time in a bar is spending too much money and productive time;
Spending too much time in a shopping center is spending too much money and productive time;
That new extra too expensive car on a 5 year finance;
Yelled at kids for poorer than expected school marks;
Angry at family members because they did not know how to perform a task.
Ok. Enough for now. But I think you get the point. These everyday situations may seem like normal living happenstances. I assure you, there are very damaging to your family.
Wasting money like boozing, smoking, buying too much stuff on credit and not helping out in the family is most certainly wasteful in more ways than one.
Firstly, your money is being spent on not just wasteful things but really to quell a stress or habbit.
Secondly, that money can be invested in more productive things like investing for a better way of life (a home maybe?).
Thirdly, your family bonding and growing together to have everything you all do that much more powerful and pleasant is lost.
So, what should you really do? The answer is amazingly simple but yet most people are simply being pulled by peer pressure or advertisements or some other temptations to be away from home and money.
Ah, money. If this is all that you focus on, you won't make a whole lot of it. To make lots of money, you'll need lots of strong, stable and honest support. In fact, this is what true wealth building is all about. It all begins at home.
Remember the stories about what divorced families can suffer through? Well, they're only too real.
Just to add food for thought, what do you think will happen if you try to start your own new ventures like a business or investment but everyone is clamoutring for your very scarse attention and money? Do you think you can make a go of things? It's most certainly like a very huge load to carry isn't it?
To build true wealth, you can begin by taking these simple steps;
Your own attitude is that wealth building requires a long term effort, it will change your life, it is who you become;
Invest in your family with investment for the future, love and teaching them the same life transformation you are gooing through;
Build together, co-operate with each other, grow together;
You'll find you and your family can focus on anything together to achieve your desires;
Alright, then you will find that problems that can defeat one can become just challenges dealth with by all.
Well, truth be told, this is the true wealth that you've built. Now you want money? Lots and lots of money? Sure, just keep making it then.
And when you do, don't forget family bonding is such an important life long event in any family. How about a night out to the movies with the family?
I know, I know, what about the juicy real tips about making money? That my friend, is for another topic.
Great Wealth and Happiness,
Stephen Chua
Originally Posted: Jun 6, 2008 at 8:34 PM Last Updated: Jun 6, 2008 at 8:34 PM
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